Tired of the bs you find in the dating scene nowadays? Do you feel a bit lost and over the whole thing, but still hope that the next relationship might be the one? Without guidance, being single and out in the dating world can be a little confusing. But bad experiences, misunderstandings, wasting yours and others’ time can all be avoided by simply paying attention to what we call RED FLAGS.
In order to be alert for red flags (and life in general), it is imperative that we develop three things ourselves first: the ability to be present, good listening skills, and the courage to ask the right questions. Read More…
As you all know, here at HLife we don’t sugarcoat things. We tell it like it is. So, let’s get right to it and discuss something that is on the minds of many, if not all: love. First, lets take a quick look at what love is not:
- -Love is not a need. Love is not a need because we all have it inside ourselves. Love can be shared, given or received, but it cannot be needed. If you view love as a need, this means you have not recognized the love inside you or tapped into it. We all have love inside of ourselves, but if we identify it as a need, if we think we need it from the outside, we will never be able to share, give or receive it because we will be desperately trying to compensate for something we lack instead of being in a harmonious, joyous, appreciative (and therefore loving) state. Looking for love outside of yourself when you have not recognized it inside of you first is going about things backwards. Love always begins within you. We cannot love someone or something if there is no love inside of ourselves. By the same token, how can anyone love us if we don’t love ourselves, if we don’t deem ourselves worthy of love? So, the first step is to recognize that we have love, inside, then fall in love with ourselves (not in an narcissistic egotistical way, but by recognizing and appreciating who we are in all of our splendor) and then start loving ourselves. At that level of self-awareness and self-love, we will know and understand that love is something that we’ll never need, because we always have it; but, because you have it, it is something you can give to others without any expectation. You ARE love. Be love and by the law of attraction, you will attract that into your life. Read More…
